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March 07, 2012

Never Surrender Your Facebook Password--Unless You Want a Job

Some stories make us as ourselves, "What country are we living in?*"  This is one of them.

Some government agencies, employers, and colleges have demanded to know applicants' Facebook account passwords.  The ACLU stepped in and helped get that stopped. But now instead some are asking and even demanding to have access to the supposedly private friends' only posts. If they can do that with Facebook, your formerly private email could be next.

Even if you aren't required to reveal the information, if you're trying to get a job or get on a team, will you want to take the chance of refusing?

Currently, employers in most of the United States aren't supposed to discriminate on the basis of sex, race, age (with some major exceptions).  But apparently those rights don't apply to something as fundamental as private communication with your friends and family.

Learn more in The Redtape Chronicles article HERE

*Most, but not all, of us currently reside in the United States of America.

 

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December 29, 2011

Breastfeed at Target

Breastfeeding child uploaded by Aexrefous under GNU Free Documentation License, Version 1.2 and Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license.In Texas they said a woman couldn't breastfeed at Target even though the law said they could. So women protested Wednesday by having "nurse-ins" at 250 of Target stores.

Breastfeeding is natural and not something that has to be hidden. Before people invented baby bottles every human being breastfed.

Some people make breasts sex objects. Who decided women's chests are sexy and not men's? Not me! If you believe in God would he make something a sex object that he wanted babies to suck on?

I believe in God and Goddess and the human body is a beautiful thing. We should not force people to hide it.

http://healthland.time.com/2011/12/29/target-nurse-in-did-it-change-perceptions-of-public-breast-feeding/

Photo uploaded by Aexrefous under GNU Free Documentation License, Version 1.2 and Creative Commons Attribution-Share Alike 3.0 Unported license. http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Breastfeeding_child.jpg

The opinions expressed by an individual member of The Loveshade Family do not necessarily reflect the views of the whole family.

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November 25, 2011

Fox News Viewers Know Less Than Those Who Don't Watch News

Megyn Kelly on Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor (screen capture)It may be hard to believe.  But a recent survey reported that regular Fox News viewers actually know less about current events than those who don't watch news at all.

Fairleigh Dickinson University asked 612 New Jersey adults how they got their news and then asked them about current affairs.  Most of the results didn't surprise me as they backed up a previous survey. Watchers of Sunday morning shows that discuss public affairs and national newspapers readers scored relatively high.  Fox News viewers scored at the bottom.

What I found amusing was that viewers of the comedy "The Daily Show" with John Stewart were actually better informed on some issues than those who got their news from Fox News or MSNBC.

Note that the poll tested a relatively small sample and thus has a relatively large margin of error.

See the Los Angeles Times article by Michael A. Memoli at articles.latimes.com/2011/nov/21/news/la-pn-fox-news-poll-20111121

On a side note, after Megyn Kelly told Bill O'Reilly on Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor that pepper spray was essentially "a food product," a petition went up for her to eat it.  Not just her words, but the pepper spray.  In response, Sam Seder of Majority.FM pointed that peach seeds contain what is essentially a food product, cyanide.  See the petition at www.change.org/petitions/fox-news-anchor-eat-or-drink-a-full-dose-of-pepper-spray-on-national-television.

See Seder's openly biased report at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zE2Nxjv6gwM.  The previous survey is discussed at http://loveshade.org/blog/2010/12/are_you_smarter_than_a_fox_new.html

The image of Megyn Kelly on Fox News' The O'Reilly Factor is a screen capture.  This is intended to help illustrate the article and no threat to any copyright is intended. 

Thanks to Vernon Avaritt III for pointing out these stories.  An opinion expressed by an individual member of The Loveshade Family does not necessarily express the views of the entire family.

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As someone asked before where I get my news, I get it largely through the Internet, primarily Associated Press, NPR, Christian Science Monitor, Yahoo!, and online national newspapers.  I also get news from the openly-biased ACLU.  If I'm really interested in a story, I check more than one source and try to account for bias. -- Alden Loveshade

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July 29, 2011

Laws Left Behind--Maybe For Good Reason

Photo of a urinating boy with a book is under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic licenseby (Juhan Sonin)I wanted to post this comment in response to Congress Hasn't Reauthorized Education Law: Many Others Left Behind Too.  Author David Baumann, About.com Guide, Baumann wrote,

"Sometimes Congress has a hard time doing its job and it can have serious ramifications. Take the requirement that Congress is supposed to reauthorize programs periodically, once the programs are created.

"Congress can't seem to do it; programs remain un-reauthorized for years," and said they had not reauthorized the "No Child Left Behind" act.  The site wasn't taking comments, so here is mine below.

While I appreciate your perspective, I do see another side to this issue.  If they are in agreement, it is easy for members of Congress to reauthorize programs.

But they aren't likely to reauthorize something with which they disagree.

The "No Child Left Behind" act was extremely controversial when it passed.  At the time, however, one political party had control of congress and the executive branch, and it was approved.

The recent scandal in Chicago schools has been linked to administrators and teachers allowing and even encouraging their students to cheat on tests to keep their jobs.  Some teachers were apparently threatened if they did not participate.  Many feared they would lose their jobs because of a law many have called unrealistic, unfair, and counterproductive.  It put many educators in the position where if they honestly did their job they could lose it.

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June 10, 2011

I'm a Graduate!

Wesleyan College graduates 1913I'm a Graduate! It took me five years but I finally got my degree. I majored in Education with a lot of English and some Psychology. I plan to teach elementary school if you didn't know.

But I still have more school to take. It seems like it will take forever!

Some people said I should graduate naked under my robe. I don't know about that. But I promise to graduate naked under my clothes! lol

Yay Class of 2011!

We had some techincal difficulties with posting comments on this entry. We apologize to our commenters and to Lorien. We believe we now have the problem solved so post away!

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April 09, 2011

We Don't Want No Long-Haired Boys Here

CBS 11 photo of Kenneth Fails from http://image.cbslocal.com/24/2010/08/24/320x240/kennethfails.jpgMany parents today are worried about guns at school, dropping test scores, and teenage pregnancy. But 12-year-old Kenneth Fails was put on in-school suspension for several weeks and through two grades for a different offense: long hair. In the Itasca Independent School District in Texas, the rules of the schools are clear: girls can have long hair, boys can't. But the question, now that we're well into the 21st century, is why?

See the full article by Alden Loveshade at http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/7914171/no_longhaired_boys_allowed.html

 From now no, please post your comments there.

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Photo of Kenneth Fails is from CBS 11 at http://image.cbslocal.com/24/2010/08/24/320x240/kennethfails.jpg  No threat to its copyright is intended by the link to the photo.

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March 22, 2011

To Hug, To Pinch, To Pat: Or Not?

Zuchtlose Liebe (heinous love), oil on canvas, 55,5 x 51 cm (from a cycle of eight paintings "Schlechte und gute Erziehung", shown 1800 at the Berlin Academy) bySusanne Henry (née Chodowiecki) Much of the world just celebrated St. Patrick's Day, which in America means a tradition of wearing green and of pinching those who don't.  It can be a lot of fun.

But it can also be a problem.  I just saw an opinion on Develle Dish that linked pinching on St. Patrick's Day to rape culture.  The author didn't equate pinching with rape, but wrote that she has the right for her body not to be touched whether it's a pinch or intercourse.

The issue of allowable touching is a very thorny and tricky one, and mixes societal norms with biological needs.

Certainly I would agree that when a playful pinch devolves into continued physical harassment there's a problem.  One commentor on the opinion piece said her daughter forgot to wear green and got pinched all day long and consequently didn't want to go to school the next day.  But where exactly is the line?

Continue reading "To Hug, To Pinch, To Pat: Or Not?" »

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December 31, 2010

Reverend Loveshade's Predictions for 2011

 

Reverend Loveshade's Predictions for 2011
Once again, the future-seeing I, Reverend Loveshade, have amazng predictions for 2011.  The rest of the gang had nothing to do with this.  So they claim, but don't believe them.  These are our my predictions for 2011:

 

* The AMERICAN CONGRESS will work very hard to get very little done.

* Something long-lost by a MAJOR ARTIST will be revealed.

* A scandal will rock the BRITISH GOVERNMENT.  The color purple will be involved.

* The AMERICAN ECONOMY will show significant improvement; Democrats will claim it's because of their fine work, while Republicans will claim it's because of improvements made while George W. Bush was still president.

* BARACK OBAMA will once again be shown to qualify to be U. S. President.  Many people, especially those who watch Fox News, won't believe it.

* The BBC will have a major, career-destroying scandal.

* A male BRITISH ICON of purity and wholesomeness will be caught with his hand somewhere people don't think it belongs; i.e., in someone else's pocket.

* A female AMERICAN ICON of purity and wholesomeness will be caught exposing a portion of her anatomy that the prudish will not think should be exposed.

* Former American President BILL CLINTON will receive an award nobody in their right mind would have expected him to receive when e was president.

* The Law that DEATHS ALWAYS HAPPEN IN FIVES will once again be proven this year.  At least of those deaths will be unexpected, a famous singer, and a famous actor.

* A major figure in the MIDDLE EAST will be violently killed.

* A WORLD-KNOWN FIGURE will admit a Discordian connection.

* A long-awaited for DISCORDIAN TOME will finally be published.  There will be much rejoicing.

HAPPY NEW YEAR,

THE LOVESHADE FAMILY

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December 03, 2010

High School Gay-Straight Alliance

Several schools have Gay Lesbian Transgendered groups. This one has a group to bring them and Straights together.

Called Gay-Straight Alliance, the group at Tahquitz High School joins other similar groups in the San Jacinto Valley of California.  Part of their motivation was concern over the bullying-related deaths of teenagers in California, Texas, and Indiana.

Many years ago, bulllying in school for whatever reason wasn't taken all that seriously, and was put in the "boys will be boys" category.  Hopefully we are moving into an area where the lives of middle school and high school students are considered as important as those of adults.

LINKS

See the GSA network at http://gsanetwork.org/

Read more about the group at Taquitz at http://www.thevalleychronicle.com/articles/2010/11/24/news/schools/doc4ceda5f35e94f417577171.txt

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September 14, 2010

School Board Does Not Change Long Hair Suspension

Photo of Kenneth Fails from CBS 11The school board of Itasca, Texas listened to Kenneth Fail's mother complain about his in-school suspension last night (Monday, 13 September 2010).  They listened in silence, but changed nothing.

Kenneth, age 12, had been on in-school suspension in fifth grade for his locks, and was put in it this school year in his first day of sixth grade.

At the meeting for the Itasca Independent School District, his mother, Marsha Wisnosky, wore a "Free Kenny" T-shirt.  She said, "What about pregnant teenagers. How does that look with them walking around in your school and what does that say to every other teenage girl? When does it come down to the child's merits not the way they look?"

Others commented on how letting girls have long hair, some much longer than Kenneth's, amounted to sexual discrimination.  We're wondering if this will end up in court, and are notifying the ACLU about it.

Ironically, the school district's website at http://www.itascaisd.org proclaims, "The Itasca ISD does not discriminate on the basis of race, religion, color, national origin, sex, or disability in providing education or providing access to benefits of education services, activities, and programs...."

For more on the meeting, see http://cbs11tv.com/education/itasca.kenneth.fails.2.1911441.html

For all our entries on Kenneth Fails, see http://www.loveshade.org/blog-mt/mt-search.fcgi?IncludeBlogs=1&search=Kenneth+Fails

The photo of Kenneth Fails is from CBS 11, and no threat to its copyright is intended http://image.cbslocal.com/24/2010/08/24/320x240/kennethfails.jpg

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August 24, 2010

Itasca, Texas Boy Suspended for Long Hair

Kenneth Fails, age 12, of Itasca Middle School in Texas (screen capture from CBS 11)We live in a time when "children" are in the news for committing horrible crimes: arson, rape, murder.  Now we have to add to the list of horrors: not scheduling an appointment with your hair dresser.

Kenneth Fails, 12, a sxith-grader at Itasca Middle School in Itasca, Texas, received an in-school suspension on the first day of school.  His offense?  Long hair.  He had previously been on in-school suspension for several weeks in fifth grade starting in April for having long locks.

Now here's the thing that might get Kenneth a lawyer and lead to a legal precedent: girls at his school can have long hair.

How long has it been since the "Beatle cut" was shocking, or since Hair was released, or since you first saw a male president of a college or CEO of a big corporation with a ponytail?  How long has it been since you first went to a job interview and the interviewer had his hair over his shoulders?

There's no law of nature that says men have short hair.  Back in the good old days of America's early history, there wasn't a human-made law that stopped Thomas Jefferson and Benjamin Franklin from letting their hair flow.  In today's America, there are state and federal laws, though, against discrimination based on gender. 

It's time Texas moved forward into the 21st century--or at least back to the 18th.

http://news.yahoo.com/video/dallascbs11-15750646/itasca-school-suspends-child-for-his-long-hair-21554562

Screen capture shows Kenneth Fails, age 12, of Itasca Middle School in Texas (screen capture from CBS 11.  No threat to its copyright is intended)

The opinions of a single poster do not necessarily reflect the views of the entire Loveshade Family.  Even though I bet this one does.

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May 25, 2010

Senator Al Franken Introduces The Student Non-Discrimination Act

The photo is Al Franken's official senate portraitSenator Al Franken (D-MN). introduced The Student Non-Discrimination Act (SNDA) in the U. S. Senate.  If approved, the bill would require schools that receive federal funding to not discriminate against students on the basis of their sexual orientation or gender identity.

A version of the bill was previously been introduced into the House of Representatives by Representative Jared Polis (D-CO) in January.  The Senate bill has 22 co-sponsors, and sponsorship of the House bill has increased to over 100.

This bill would not only help prevent discrimination against gay and lesbian students, but also those who are transgendered.

LINKS

To see all our entries dealing with the Student Non-Discrimination Act (including our first entry on Constance McMillen), click on http://www.loveshade.org/blog-mt/mt-search.fcgi?IncludeBlogs=1&search=student non-discrimination act

To see all our entries dealing with homosexual issues, click on http://loveshade.org/blog-mt/mt-search.fcgi?IncludeBlogs=1&search=homosexual

To read the House version of the bill, go to http://thomas.loc.gov/cgi-bin/query/z?c111:H.R.4530.IH:

It sometimes takes a few days for a version of a bill to be available online.  We will include a link to the official Senate version when available.

 

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May 14, 2010

War on Drugs: 40 Years of Fail

Image from http://richarddetrich.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/prohibition.gif

 

 

'I loved when Bush came out and said, "We are losing the war against drugs." You know what that implies? There's a war being fought, and the people on drugs are winning it.' -- Bill Hicks, Queen's Theatre Late Show (1993)

'Like the war on drugs, the war on terror is absolutely unwinnable.' -- Tim Strawman (2004)

'In the grand scheme, it has not been successful. Forty years later, the concern about drugs and drug problems is, if anything, magnified, intensified." -- U.S. drug czar Gil Kerlikowske (2010)

The so-called War on Drugs has failed.  Even Kerlikowske, who is in command of the "troops", now admits that the effort that technically began in 1970 has failed.  The war has cost a trillion dollars and thousands of lives, yet drug use hasn't dropped.

Even the much lauded DARE program, where school children spent part of a day getting balloons and stickers and hearing people talk about how bad drugs are, has had no measurable effect.  But the program continued, and school board members and city officials got their smiling but concerned faces in front of newspaper-reading voters.

In reality, the war's been fought much longer than 40 years.  America's "war" began in 1920 with the passing of the 18th amendment to the U. S. Constitution, the one that created the Prohibition against alcohol.  The result was the creation of a criminal society where ordinary citizens regularly violated the U. S. Constitution.  It also led to the creation of organized crime in America, and may have been a factor leading to the Great Depression.

In 1933, the amendment was repealed, and the Depression slowly began to ease.  But organized crime remained, simply focusing on different businesses.

In a real war, you know the enemy.  You know who you're fighting.  It's Japan or Germany or the United States. In a drug war, there is no enemy, unless it's everyone who takes drugs.  But that's virtually all of America.

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May 13, 2010

Teacher Found Not Guilty of Sexual Child Molestation--And Loses

Edith, Lorina and Alice Liddell (photo by Charles Dodgson aka Lewis Carroll)"

Paranoia strikes deep / Into your life it will creep / It starts when you're always afraid / You step out of line, the man come and take you away."

-- Neil Young and Stephen Stills of Buffalo Springfield, 'For What It's Worth,' 1966.

In certain times and certain places, being pinned with a certain label can destroy you.  The label pinned on you could be Communist, or Jew, or Nazi, or Gypsy, or Witch, or Homosexual, or Pedophile, or Christian.  The label doesn't matter, as long as fear and ignorance and their offspring hate go along with it.  When fear and ignorance are in control, "presumed innocent until proven guilty" doesn't matter.  If you're accused, you're guilty.

Former Georgia kindergarten teacher Tonya Craft, who lived with two years of accusations, hate and death threats, was cleared of all 22 counts of molestation and sexual abuse.  It began--and ended--with three young girls.  But her real-life trial is far from over.  There are still threats against her.  And her case cost Craft her job, her reputation and her home.

The charges came from when she was a kindergarten teacher at the American Chickamauga Elementary School, and one of her accusers was her own daughter.  The girl claimed her mother had put medicine on her.  But in a country obsessed with tracking down and destroying child molesters/pedophiles, that, and the testimony of two girls, was enough.

Two young girls were found touching each other. According to history and psychology, that is normal human behavior.  But not in this time of paranoia.  A monstrous, depraved, perverted adult must have done something awful and against the girls' will, so that person must be found and punished.

Fortunately for Craft, the girls were not very skilled at being consistent in telling their stories.  After five weeks of trial, the court and the jury discovered the youngsters were telling the tales they had been taught by their parents.  In cases like this, that sort of coaching by parents and prosecutors is commonplace.  And so are the angry mobs.

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April 23, 2010

Colorado Court Overturns Campus Concealed Gun Ban

Girls Gun Club photo is from the El Paso High School Yearbook, El Paso, Texas (1923)

The Colorado Court of Appeals ruled that University of Colorado students who have a permit to carry concealed weapons can now carry them on campus. In February, Colorado State University decided not to allow such students to carry guns, but that may now be overturned. There was probably a lot of cheering by gun groups in Colorado as well as by some students and teachers.

In their wisdom, officials at Colorado State University decided on the ban because they were worried about another Columbine or Virginia Tech happening. I mean imagine you are a teacher and you decide to flunk a student and he has a gun. Or worse, you decide not to give an honors student an A and give him a B+ instead, and he has a hidden weapon. I hope you made out your will. It is a jungle in the school with all the competition. But I'm talking about USC, Syracuse, and Miami, not Colorado.

The student body of Colorado State University at Fort Collins had raised a roar over the gun policy. Sophomore David Ambrose said, "Banning guns on campus make students second class citizens compared with the rest of Colorado." Colorado is a rural state and many students and faculty are hunters. I have nothing against hunting or owning guns. There is definitely a cowboy mentality in Colorado. I can understand that you might want to do a little quail hunting before class and you want to drive directly to college. But carrying a concealed weapon to class, even with a permit, is just wrong.

Most campuses across the nation have weapons restrictions on campus, including some conservative states. Oh well we can't win them all.

Here are the sources.

http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/23161698/detail.html


http://articles.latimes.com/2009/dec/28/nation/la-na-guns-campus28-2009dec28 

The photo is taken from the 1923 El Paso High School Yearbook, El Paso, Texas and shows the high school Girls Gun Club. As far as we know it's public domain.

Vernon Avaritt wants to thank Danacasso and Alden Loveshade for help with this report. But understand that the opinions expressed in this entry represent those of Vern.

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April 22, 2010

The Real American Tea Party

http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2009/04/15/us/16teaparty2_600.JPG (photo by Doug Mills/The New York Times)Like it or not, but often the more political power you have, the less likely you are to let people know what you're really after.  You may even de-emphasize who you really are.

People in the emerging Tea Party movement encourage others to "Join the fight for liberty" and be a "patriot."  They describe themselves as part of as a "populist" or "grassroots" movement, representing the vast majority of America.

They hearken back to the 18th century Boston Tea Party protest against taxation without representative--an event that fueled the American Revolution and a violent break from the British government.  Last year the Republican Governor of Texas, Tea Party activist Rick Perry, even went so far as to hint that Texas could split from the Union.  But he backtracked by saying no such thing was planned, and that he loved America.

Now a poll by The New York Times has found who the Tea Party members are--and this is directly from them.  (And for those who don't know, the Tea Party is not a political party in the sense that the Democratic Party, Republican Party, Libertarian Party or Green Party are.  At least not yet.) 

They are generally affluent, and not suffering economically like much of the rest of the country.  They are also Republican and conservative, and many see little difference between the Tea Party and the Republican Party--except that many of them want to weed out less conservative Republicans.  They also tend to be over the age of 45, male, married, and white.

Image is at http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/04/16/image4949606x.jpg (photo by CBS/Brian Montopoli)And, according to their own responses, the largely affluent members think the current system gives too much help to the poor.  And the primarily white members are more likely than most Americans, even than most Republicans, to think too much focus has been spent on the problems of blacks.  In fact they are more than twice as likely as the average American to think the current administration favors blacks over whites.

See two articles about the poll at http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2010/04/14/us/politics/20100414-tea-party-poll-graphic.html and at http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/15/us/politics/15poll.html

Photo by Doug Mills for The New York Times is from http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/2009/04/15/us/16teaparty2_600.JPG and photo by Brian Montopoli for CBS is at http://wwwimage.cbsnews.com/images/2009/04/16/image4949606x.jpg No threat to their respective copyright is intended.

Entries by persons who are members or associates of The Loveshade Family do not necessarily represent the views of the whole family.

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April 09, 2010

The Student Non-Discrimination Act

Preprom taken by Ken Stokes on May 20, 2005You may have read our entry about the discrimination against high school student Constance McMillen who wanted to attend her high school prom. Her situation got even worse.

Constance wanted to go to her Mississippi high school prom with her girlfriend, but the school refused to allow it. After the ACLU filed a lawsuit on her behalf, a federal judge said the The Itawamba County Agricultural High School could not discriminate against her attending a school-sponsored prom as that violated her First Amendment rights. The school board's response? Rather that let her attend with a female, they cancelled the prom for everyone.

But the fight against Constance and personal freedom got even worse. The judge was assured that she would be allowed to attend a private dance that would serve as the school prom. But the only students who showed up were Constance, her date, and five other students. Two of those students had disabilities. The "real" prom was held somewhere else.

We will respect the wishes of Constance and the ACLU and not focus all of our outrage on the cruelty here. James Esseks, director of the LGBT Project, said "there's nothing she wants more than for these kind of hurtful actions to end for students all across the country." We cannot change what happened to Constance, but we can support the Student Non-Discrimination Act to prevent this happening to future prom-goers.

Esseks said, "The Student Non-Discrimination Act would be the first comprehensive federal prohibition against discrimination in public schools based on a student's sexual orientation or gender identity."

You can help by sending an email in support of the act by going to https://secure.aclu.org/site/Advocacy?cmd=display&page=UserAction&id=2207&s_src=UNW100001ACT&s_subsrc=100409_const_CAN&JServSessionIdr004=8jp5gu9q75.app224a

Read more at http://www.yppo.com/2010/04/09/constance-mcmillen-fake-prom/

Preprom photo taken by Ken Stokes on May 20, 2005 and is released under the GNU Free Documentation License, Version 1.2 license as found at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Preprom.jpg

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To see all our entries dealing with the Student Non-Discrimination Act (including our first entry on Constance McMillen), click on http://www.loveshade.org/blog-mt/mt-search.fcgi?IncludeBlogs=1&search=student non-discrimination act

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March 11, 2010

To Stop Gay Couples, Mississippi School Cancels Prom

Image is at http://www.pinknews.co.uk/images/prom2.jpgConstance McMillen wanted to go to her high school prom with her girlfriend.  She wanted to wear a tuxedo.  The Itawamba County Agricultural High School faced a dilemma.  Their policy said no same-sex couples, and no cross dressing.

The American Civil Liberties Union, however, said that policy was a violation of civil rights.  The ACLU's point had already been decided in Fricke v. Lynch, 491 f. Supp. 381, way back in 1980.  So the school district made a decision: rather than let one girl wear a tuxedo, they cancelled the prom for everyone.

The report didn't actually say it was because of that, but "due to the distractions to the educational process caused by recent events."

Apparently, in that county in Mississippi, learning about civil rights is a distraction to what they consider a proper education. 

Read the story at http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_lesbian_prom_date

Image used is at http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-13517.html/ and appears at http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-13517.html/ No threat to its copyright is intended.

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December 31, 2009

Predictions for 2010

 

Loveshade Predictions for 2010

 

I know you've all been waiting for this all year, so here it is.

Here are my predictions for 2010 (actually, other members of The Loveshade Family contributed to this; they just don't want to admit it):

* The HEALTH CARE REFORM so praised by Americans (that is, those who don't have health care), will pass, but will not work as planned.  Detractors will say it's a huge waste of money, and will put America in the toilet.  However, supporters will say it's at least better than it was, and it will continue to get better.  Rush Limbaugh will say at least I'm still alive.

ELVIS PRESLEY will be spotted in a shopping mall in New Jersey.

* The AMERICAN ECONOMY will show significant improvement; Democrats will claim it's because of their fine work, while Republicans will claim it's because of improvements made while George W. Bush was still president.

* An American group will work very hard to prove that BARACK OBAMA DOESN'T QUALIFY AS PRESIDENT.  The group will be suspected of having ties to a dissident group overseas.

* The supposedly dim-witted PARIS HILTON will still maintain the facade of being dim-witted, but will none-the-less cleverly manage to get herself in the news for yet another scandal.

* A male AMERICAN ICON of purity and wholesomeness will be caught with his hand somewhere people don't think it belongs; i.e., in someone else's pocket.

* A female BRITISH ICON of purity and wholesomeness will be caught exposing a portion of her anatomy that the prudish will not think should be exposed.

* The Law that DEATHS ALWAYS HAPPEN IN FIVES will once again be proven this year.  At least of those deaths will be unexpected, a famous singer, and a famous actor.

QUEEN ELIZABETH I will not die, but will have a significant medical problem.  (Sorry, your Majesty).

* A major figure in the MIDDLE EAST will be violently killed.

* In the United Kingdom, there will be renewed interest in an ANCIENT ACTIVITY.  It will be something that's been popular in North America for years.

HIP HOP will still be popular with many, and still hated by many others.

* I will perform a legally-recognized DISCORDIAN WEDDING, and there will be much rejoicing.

HAPPY NEW YEAR,

THE LOVESHADE FAMILY

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August 29, 2009

Miyam Bialik: Teen Icon as Blossom to Unconventional Mom

Miyam Bialik (photo from http://www.holisticmoms.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/mayim-final1.jpg)If you remember 1990s American television, you likely remember Miyam Bialik as Blossom. Blossom was the teen who hung around with Six and had a clueless brother named Joey. Now Bialik is becoming known for alternative or holistic parenting.

Bialik, who received a doctorate degree in neuroscience, is using and promoting family bed sharing, home schooling, home birth, and nursing on demand--breast-feeding based on your child's needs, not a schedule. She also promotes elimination communication, which means the parents learn to observe when the child is ready to "go potty." Her first son was potty trained at 12 months.

Two of our small family have worked professionally with children, believe in holistic methods, and most if not all of us were fans of the TV program Blossom. (You may also have see Bialik in the film Kalamazoo? and while playing Bette Midler's character as a young girl in the movie Beaches).

You can learn about Mayim and Holistic Parenting at http://www.holisticmoms.org/category/aboutus/spokesperson/ and see the commercial-free version of Ali Landry's interview with Bialik at http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/goddess/spotlight-to-nightlight-mayim-bialik-from-teen-icon-to-unconventional-mom/270?nc. Photo is linked to http://holisticmoms.org. No threat to their copyright is intended.

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July 15, 2009

California Legislature Rejects Summer School--and Common Sense

"Students at two elementary schools in Chino Hills have been attending summer school for nothing."

The California Legislature rejected the effort by Dickson Elementary and Rolling Ridge Elementary schools to make up for "missing time" that was never missing.

Both schools fulfilled the state-required number of school hours--except that, because their Friday sessions were mistakenly a few minutes short, they didn't count at all. So to avoid losing millions of dollars in state funding, the schools hurriedly tacked on 34 extra days of school.

The legislature was supposedly working hard to correct the school district's mistake and their own misguided law, but they didn't. Instead, they're using it as an opportunity to refuse to give those schools $5 million to which they were otherwise legally entitled. In addition, the schools are out all the extra money they spent on summer school days that aren't being counted.

Hopefully a bill to fix this legal threat to education will fix the equation:

School district mistake + California legislature mistake = punishing the kids and the schools.

Welcome to California.

http://abclocal.go.com/kabc/story?section=news/local/inland_empire&id=6908380

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June 25, 2009

California Legislature Fails Arithmetic

Students on playground at Rolling Ridge Elementary School in Chino Hills, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong)The California legislature is scrambling to fix the snafu that is forcing two Southern California elementary schools to stay open an extra 34 days. Susie Lange, California Department of Education's deputy superintendent of fiscal services, said "To the average person, it sounds like crazy bureaucracy that we count the number of minutes,"

As a couple of us have worked in the educational system, it does sound like crazy bureaucracy.  But that's because they aren't counting the minutes.

It's not a matter of the schools being short of the state allotted 54,000 minutes in school. The students made and even exceeded that requirement by the end of the scheduled school year. It's a matter that, because their Fridays were 5 minutes short at Dickson Elementary in Chino and 10 minutes short at Rolling Ridge Elementary, those days weren't counted at all. As far as the legislature's tally goes, the 170 minutes and 175 minutes students spent each Friday at those schools never happened.  In arithmetic as figured by the state legislature, 180 - 5 = 0.

Yes, the school district made a serious error in miscounting the minutes. But how could the legislature intentionally make a law that ignores time students actually spent at school?

Estimates are that even if the state legislature works at maximum efficiency, it will be at least another eight days to fix something that should never had been made broken. Perhaps we need to send those legislatures to those elementary school students. Maybe one of the kids there can teach them how to do their arithmetic.

http://www.newsday.com/news/nationworld/nation/wire/sns-ap-us-california-schools-not-out,0,7891036.story

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June 18, 2009

School District Error Means 34 Days Less Summer Vacation

Dickson Elementary School in Chino, California (Christine Cotter / Los Angeles Times)Students at two elementary schools in San Bernardino, California, exceeded the number of required minutes to be in school. So they're off on summer vacation, right? Wrong. Instead, they have 34 more days of school. Instead of getting out on in the middle of June, they're supposed to stay until the end of July.

How did this happen? Rolling Ridge Elementary in Chino Hills and Dickson Elementary in Chino had shorter days on Fridays just like many elementary schools in California. This gave teachers time to plan, meet with parents, etc. But it ends up that state law requires these days to be 180 minutes long. Due to a spreadsheet error, these days were only 175 minutes at Dickson and 170 at Rolling Ridge.

The logical among us might say, "So what? They exceeded the minimum number of minutes for the school year. What difference does it make what days those were on?" But the logical among us are likely not bureaucrats and legislators.

Continue reading "School District Error Means 34 Days Less Summer Vacation" »

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May 20, 2009

13-year-old Alfie is Not the Father

Cover of The Sun showing Alfie (http://msnbcmedia3.msn.com/j/MSNBC/Components/Video/090216/n_hall_13dad_090216.vsmall.jpg)13-year-old Alfie Patten, who got front-page recognition as the father of his 15-year-old girlfriend's baby, is not the father.

While mother Chantelle did apparently did have sex with Alfie when he was 12, she was impregnated when 14 by someone else.  DNA tests that were released today, Tuesday, May 19, said the father isn't Alfie.  It's apparently a youth who is now 15 years old.

This case has opened a big debate about the virtual lack of sex education in England.  The nation has one of the highest teen pregnancy rates in Europe.  It seems that kids can learn to do things they aren't taught in a classroom.  Who would have thought it?

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30819938/?GT1=43001

For our blog entries on Alfie Patten, click on http://www.loveshade.org/blog-mt/mt-search.fcgi?IncludeBlogs=1&search=alfie+patten

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February 28, 2009

Teach Your Kids To Break The Rules

Yes, it may sound like a bit of strange advice, but it's true.

Children who always follow the rules, who do what they're told, can grow up sadly unprepared for the realities of life. Not all rules are good, and not all good rules are good all the time.

And those who continue to follow the rules are the same people who support oppressive and unfair regimes. They are also the people who are oppressed by such regimes.

While we don't necessarily agree with everything in Craig Playstead's article, you might want to check it out at http://lifestyle.msn.com/your-life/family-parenting/article.aspx?cp-documentid=16949831.

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February 14, 2009

13 Year Old Father to be Taught about Birds and the Bees

Cover of The Sun showing the new dad (Stringer / AFP - Getty Images)The father of a United Kingdom boy who impregnated a girl when he was age 12 plans to have a talk with his son about sex. 

Dennis Patten, father of new father Alfie Patten, now age 13, decided it's time for an education. '"I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and bees talk. Some may say it's too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby."'

The new mother is Chantelle, who was 14 when impregnated and is now 15.

Just another example of how effective it is to try to keep children ignorant about sex.

See more at http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29184929/?gt1=43001

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March 03, 2008

Save Our Youth with Harsh Abuse

Image of child behind bars from news.bbc.co.ukShackling teens for 12 hours a day; physically and sexually abusing teen girls and teen boys; stripping teenage girls naked and forcing them to eat their own vomit: These are correction methods that have been investigated by various agencies, including the U. S. Department of Justice.  Now the Columbia Training School of Columbia, Mississippi, which has been the site of much of this controversy, is being shut down.

While many of the 13,000 claims of abuse for juvenile correction centers made in America from 2004 to 2007 are likely bogus, it's still a staggering number.  This is especially considering there were about 46,000 detainees in 2007.  Assuming the number of detainees and reports was more-or-less constant for those three years, that's about one report per ten teens per year.

But is the problem just with juveniles, or with the whole system?  The flawed mission of the adult correction system was perhaps intentionally pointed out by Ana Margarita Compain-Romero of the praised Missouri Department of Social Services.  "It's just a different approach that we take. It's a treatment approach.  In other states, they take a more punitive approach, more like corrections."

In other words, so-called adult correction isn't treatment, it's punishment.  But don't you treat something in order to correct it?

See the article "13,000 abuse claims in juvie centers" by Associated Press writer Holbrook Mohr at http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080302/ap_on_re_us/juvenile_detention.

(Alden Loveshade contributed to this report)

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November 06, 2007

Does Abstinence-Only Education Stop Teen Pregnancy?

Pregnant teen (from www.parentsbehavingbadly.com)Once again, Texas has the highest teen birth rate of any state in the United States.  Interestingly, Texas has a policy of denying contraceptives without parental consent and strongly promotes abstinence-only sex education in public schools.

By contrast, California, which promotes both teaching abstinence and birth control, and which makes contraception available to teens without parental consent, has a much lower teen birth rate.

From 1991 to 2004, the nation's teen birth rate dropped by a third.  Texas only dropped by 19 percent, while California dropped by 47 percent, according to the non-profit group Child Trends.  (California and Texas are respectively the first and second most populous U. S. states).

Certainly there are other factors involved--micro or sub cultures, wealth vs. poverty, etc.  But the numbers certainly don't support the idea that abstinence-only education stops teenagers from having sex.

See a Dallas Morning News article about this at http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/latestnews/stories/110507dnmetteenbirths.35daddb.html

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October 05, 2007

Shamlicht Kids Club Formed

By Adam Newton, Banana Dance Press WriterSmagina (Gina) and Moidenis (Denis), mascots of Smagmoid Kids Club

October 3, 2007 CE / 57 Bureaucracy 3173 YOLD

Captain "Sesame Seed" Rogers and Sister Hooter announced that they've merged their Discordian youth groups Shamlicht Boys and Shamlicht Girls.

The new group, Shamlicht Kids Club*, promotes personal freedom, individualism, and the motto "Be Prepared for Anything." Both clubs' previous motto was "Be Protected from Everything." Spokesperson Pope Hilde said the new motto is much more useful, and "less subject to prosecution than keeping the kids locked in the closet all day had been."

Rogers founded Shamlicht Boys in August of 2005, while Hooter founded Shamlicht Girls in September of 2005. But Hooter claimed to have the idea first, a claim Rogers disputed. They finally agreed to disagree, and the new club was formed on October 3, 2007. (This is in honor of Luna Wilson, daughter of Robert Anton Wilson and Arlen Riley Wilson. The 15-year-old Luna's murdered body was discovered on Oct. 3, 1976).

Shamlicht Kids Club is for all sexes and all ages between X and Y. Members can choose their own uniform, and work for any of several merit badges, which include Community Service, First Aid, Brain Surgery, Writing, Poetry, Punning, Bicycling, Jockey, Jock Strap, Multiplication, Algebra, Training Bra, Estory, Gymnastics, Knot Tying, Sewing, Wedgies, Science, Fnord, Music, Discord, Dancing, Animal Husbandry, Animal Noises, Harbol Quest, Camping, Cooking, Chili Making, Tooting, Toilet Papering, Babysitting, Child Proofing, Child Photography, Puberty, Origami, Swimming, Diving, Sink, 1000 Blank White Cards, Painting, Artillery, Scuba, Fiber Arts, Underwater Basket Weaving, Jumping, Jakes, Calvin Ball, and Binky the WonderSkull Posers.

For more information, see Shamlicht Kids Club at http://discordia.loveshade.org/skc

*The group is sometimes called Smagmoid Kids Club

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January 30, 2007

Sexism in Schools: Separate but Equal?

All girls classroom at Arrowhead High School (Yahoo! News Photo)In 1892, Horner Plessy, a "colored" shoemaker, was locked up in jail for sitting in the "White" car of the East Louisiana Railroad.  With a series of failed appeals, the Plessy v. Ferguson case of 1896 established that the principle "separate but equal" was legally valid in the United States of America.

It wasn't until 1952, over half a century later in Brown v. Board of Education, that the court finally decided that separate but equal was inheritantly inequal.

Now, with a twist it's happening all over again, only this time in reverse.  It's been decided that "separate but equal" is fair, only this time it's not "white" v. "colored," it's "boys" vs. "girls."  Public schools can now receive federal funding for same-sex classes, and even same-sex schools.  It's not just for physical and sexual education anymore.

Is this a wise policy decision, or just sexism?

You can read the story, which Danacasso pointed out to us, at http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070125/ap_on_re_us/same_sex_schools

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November 01, 2006

School Boots 3 Girls in 'Underpants'

A high school principal in Long Beach New York banned three girls because they dressed as Captain Underpants on Superhero Day. Captain Underpants is a children's book. So is it too sexy for high school?Captain Underpants

And the girls were completely covered. They wore beige leotards and nude stockings under their white briefs.

But Principal Nicholas Restivo didn't like it.  "Yes, I know they weren't naked," Restivo said. "But the appearance was that they were naked."

If he thinks wearing briefs over a leotard looks like being naked, he needs to go to a nude beach. I guess he just doesn't like briefs.  Maybe he wouldn't have a problem if the girls just took their underwear off.

You can read the whole story at http://news.lycos.com/dynamic/stories/C/CAPTAIN_UNDERPANTS?SITE=LYCOS&SECTION=home&TEMPLATE=DEFAULT

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August 10, 2006

How old should you be to be an adult in America?

We don't believe in Ageism, which is deciding what you can do and can't do based on an arbitary age. (Read The Myth of the Adulthood Fairy for a humorous story about ageism).

But this ACLU survey is fun. How old should you be to do adult things in America? Check it out and fill it out at http://www.aclu.tv/youthsurvey

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August 05, 2006

Breast-fed Babies are Less Stressed

Breast feeding baby

I think a mother nursing her baby is one of the most beautiful things in the world. It's best to breast-feed at least a year and really as long as you and your child want to. And here's more evidence that's true!

Scientists learned that breast-fed babies handle stress better when they're older than babies who were bottle-fed. They studied 9,000 children at birth, age 5 and age 10. One thing they found was that breast-fed babies whose parents divorced or separated were twice as likely to be highly anxious as babies whose parents didn't. But bottle-fed babies of divorce or separation were nine times more likely to be highly stressed!

You can read the article "Breast-Fed Babies Handle Stress Better Later in Life" at http://health.msn.com/pregnancykids/articlepage.aspx?cp-documentid=100142172&GT1=8404 and learn more about breast-feeding at http://womenshealth.gov/Breastfeeding/index.cfm?page=home

(the photo is in the public domain)

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